An attorney should take into consideration what a client is seeking to achieve, then work with them to understand their financial aspirations and expectations. Help the client to set realistic goals and to decide what specific time sharing arrangements are in their children's best interests. Choose a lawyer who encourages you to ask questions, and then answers them honestly, making sure you've understood his or her explanations. You won't always get the answers you want, but you should be able to count on your lawyer to give you the information you need.